Category Archives: Marriage

  Written for BJ’s memorial service, and shared aloud on Tuesday, July 6:     BJ died in my arms. He died. I was there. That HAPPENED to me. To me. I thought I was just a normal person. But then that happened to me. As I sat with BJ, and held him, saying goodbye, […]

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Our Wedding Day July 31, 2011 Photography by Bryan Rupp   In sickness and in health. When I said those vows, I thought to myself, If I ever get sick, BJ better still love me. And then matched it with, If BJ’s sick, I promise to still love him. In sickness and in health. I  thought it […]

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